Do you ever catch yourself in a moment of complaining about somebody else? Or even second guessing your whole hearted expressions from your heart? Another big one is what people say to you, have you ever had some words of ‘advice’ from a friendly person that have stuck with you for a very long time and almost unconsciously encouraged you to adjust your attitude or ego the world sees?
Take a moment next time and reflect upon whatever it is that you’re complaining about or resisting, what the reasons are for hesitating, what the excuses are that are coming up.
It is most likely that those things that we complain about in others just so happen to be the things we ourselves are most self-conscious or self-critical about. I would like to suggest these are items within yourself to heal, not things for you to correct in others. . . . . .